Many individuals who attempt to go beyond 'box-thinking' strategies often fail, because they constantly dwell upon what others do, think and say. They choose to conform to mass consciousness conditions and agendas through appeasement, obligation and compromise, because that is what they are expected to do and that is all the mind knows.
If someone begins to judge or ridicule you, stating that you are not 'good enough' at what you do, how would you react? What outcome would you choose when you only live in your head?
The mind in duality only knows of two methods, the fight or flight response to deal with an issue if you do things from your head and not from your heart.
1. Strive
2. Retreat
Let's take a look at each individual category:
1. Strive - To force improvement to meet the standard society expects you to comfort to:
You may acknowledge that your work needs improvement, so you stop what you do and learn the methods that are needed and you spend lots of money to force your mind to educate itself. If these lessons do not come easily, the constant striving, and effort will just stress and tire out the mind so it can be of a high standard to suit other's agendas, demands and conformities. Going along to just appease social expectations so you can compete and be compared with others who are on a different journey, will not develop the satisfaction that you are searching for. It will not develop your worth, health, relationships and abundance aspects because you are doing it with mental force through social obligation that will limit and compromise grander potentials to surface. Doing things from the head and not from your heart leads to stress, mental or physical imbalance in your personal, social or business life.
2. Retreat - To give in, to pull back, to stop trying to improve just to meet certain standards:
You may acknowledge that your work needs improvement, but you think you don't have the money to obtain lessons, or you don't want others to take over your creations, or you don't agree with societies rules or regulations on what you have to do in order to obtain self-improvement, or you may think you don't have the capabilities of improving yourself to meet or satisfy their conditions. So, you do nothing and you stop trying to achieve! You become stressed and imbalanced mentally or physically in your personal, social or business life.
The majority of humanities drama issues are magnified to unpleasant levels due to allowing themselves to be contained in a limited set of controls and rules - many of which are self-made. To go beyond these controls, rules and conformities is to go beyond the perceptions of the mind and the influence of mass consciousness. To balance these scenarios is to get 'out of the mind', to get out of the head and listen to your heart - your feelings of what is right for you, what is your truth and to be prepared to live what you believe in.
Being stuck in the mind and not being able to get 'out of the mind' scenarios to expand consciousness can be broken down into 2 primary categories.
1. Mental 'Figuring-Out'
2. Defining Words
Let's take a look at each individual category:
1. Mental 'Figuring-Out' - In this scenario of self-improvement, you try to 'figure' things out, because to be a high standard of being the best, to get good grades, the mind has to know-it-all. The intellectual and the analytical mind have played a superior role in humanities experiences for a very long time. The mind has been placed on a pedestal, dividing a wedge between mind and muscle and between analytical mind and the intuitive and emotional senses. The mind tires and becomes stressed easily as it has been pushed to its limits to be of a certain standard and performance, not only with the self, but with the competition and comparison against others. Yet, the mind is also very fearful, and when it is in fear mode, the ego stands its ground to survive and protect the physical vessel from what it fears. When stress and fear is in full force, the ego becomes unbalanced, and it often creates many immoral behaviour traits, as well as sabotaging itself when exposed to the unknown and change.
The mind being very logical in its reasoning patterns becomes mistrusting and skeptical with anything that cannot be explained or proven. That is why feelings, emotions and intuition have been squashed, because it cannot be proven and controlled. The 'mind does not know beyond what it knows' so it tends to cling to the limited vision of only what it knows and that is only from past experiences or to rely and depend upon what others know, say, do and have. The mind being limited to understanding beyond the present has to try to figure-out everything, and, it can't, because it cannot go beyond what it knows - it has forgotten most incidents from the past and it has no idea what the future will be. Unfortunately, what the mind does remember are the fears and doubts of past wounds that will not serve you in the future. The mind always brings the past into the future, seeking validation outside of itself, as well as dwelling upon all the external drama games.
2. Defining Words - What others say to you can make or break your ability to improve yourself. It can lead you to strive or to retreat. How you define words is about how you perceive and interpret them. How you interpret words, phrases and statements, as well as the action and reaction of an experience is a reflection of how you see and treat yourself and others around you - your level of worth. Therefore, how others see and treat you is not only about them, but it is the mirror, it is a reflection of you, through the experience of their words and actions. Like attract like! Words have many meanings, but these meanings are often delivered with the energy of feeling and emotion that you pick up on. How you react to these words and the atmospheric feelings depends on the level of your consciousness, trust and self-worth - i.e. how you see and treat yourself that derives from your beliefs and the influences of the dualistic concepts of right and wrong, dark and light within mass consciousness. These feelings intensify the situation and if you buy into that energy, giving that energy attention you will attract that scenario into your life for you to experiences its expression.
Be aware that when you define words you can get caught in the 'mental trap of figuring-out' that limits unknown potentials to come in. The mental trap belittles self-worth and self-trust and it creates a striving verses retreating victim attitude. This keeps you living in the drama games of seeking validation in your outer world. 'Things are not what they seem - they are more than what they seem'. It is just like an audience watching a drama play, what is really going on behind the stage! Energy has many levels of expression - what you see and hear from others and how you define their words is only a limited expression from their story - the masquerade game that they have chosen to act out. Your story is not the same, you are different, you are not at the same level of consciousness to them, so why buy into their story, why seek validation from their story and why limit your potentials on how they define their story, their truth and how you define what you hear and see in that story?
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